I did not talk to NR for about 4 yrs – because of something that she did – that i saw was wrong. When we came to LA – i talked to her and she was asking me assistance on how to do self-forgiveness.

I would like to direct the point of believing she did something wrong – using self-forgiveness.

Self-forgiveness:

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to judge that what  NR did was wrong – seeing her as less than me and me more than her- believing that actions are right when they benefit me and my relationships – in self-interest – and they are wrong when it does not benefit me and my relationships -rather than deciding from the basis of what is best for all.

When and as I see myself believing that what NR did is wrong, – i stop – i breathe. I realise that believing that actions are right when they benefit me and my relationships – in self-interest – and they are wrong when it does not benefit me and my relationships – are created in my mind – as i identify as the ego-personality. I realise that judging what she did was wrong – – seeing her as less than me and me more than her- gives me a feeling that i was right as the ego-personality defined by right and wrong – rather than what is best for all. I stop participating because this is not what is best for me and not what is best for all.