Good and Bad
I once believed that to be celibate is to be pure, so i saw celibates like monks as good. I believed sex is bad because i linked it to desire for the flesh and self-gratification. Within this i am judging sex as less than what it is and celibacy as more than what it is.
I connected the word sex to desire and self-gratification because of a belief. I connected the word sex to the word bad and the word celibacy to the word good. I did this within my mind. I judged sex as less than what it is and celibacy as more than what it is. I made the words celibacy and sex – good and bad – more than or less than what they really are. I did not look at who i am within this.
When i believe and judge, i am judging and believing as the ego-personality. I am not here. The ego-personality is here defined by words which i connected to beliefs, judgments, definitions etc. – which made these words more than or less than what they really are based on the meaning i gave them.
Sex is a physical act that can be enjoyed by people who agree to do physical interaction within touch – as per what is real – as per what it really is – within taking self-responsibility for the other as one takes care of oneself – and assisting to create a life that is best for all life equally. It is assisting each other to birth self here in/as the physical – as that which is equal to/as all that exist. One will have to have a look at celibacy – and look at interacting with/as the physical within ones expression as the body.