L and I had been together for 1 and 1/2 months. It ‘seems’ to me, we were together for ‘lifetimes’, because my process has never been this ‘intense’ . L said the same thing as we were talking about it a week ago. Within the agreement, I do Self-forgiveness in every moment i see the mind coming in. That was the same thing i did when i was living on my own.
What’s the ‘difference’?
L being in the agreement with/as me, sees points that i do not see and points it out to me. I also point out to him points that he cannot see . Then, we listen to each other’s self-forgiveness statements and make sure that the self-corrective application is being done. If we have a point that remains unresolved, we ask the assistance of our buddies in the Desteni I Process to see the points we’ve missed. This is amazing shit indeed.
What kind of a ‘relationship’ does this, here on earth? I haven’t ‘experienced’ any like this before. This is ‘intense’, from the mind’s perspective., but self-expression in action from the perspective of Self.
Within a ‘relationship’, one becomes dependent on energetic ‘ups and downs’, as ‘love’ is exchanged between ‘lovers’ where the ‘relationship evolve around attraction, desire and sex’. This ‘ideal relationship’ as defined by the mind is where a person who is ‘in love’ with the ‘other’ becomes ‘consumed’ by it . Both desires to maintain the ‘ideal blissful state’ no matter what, for the ‘relationship’ to be ‘real’, yet when the ‘ relationship ends’, ‘love ends’ , and ‘love’ turns to hate.
In Equality agreements, the breath becomes the directive force. Whatever arise that is of the mind is being stopped. Feelings of Love are being self-forgiven. Living together takes a ‘new’ meaning when one lives wih someone who is doing the same process of stopping the mind – where the self is being birthed. It is ‘almost impossible ‘for the mind to ‘understand’ this self process because the mind uses logic which is limited – to ‘understand’ that which is not defined by limits. So, it ‘fails’. It is the reverse of what i used to do when i was in ‘past relationships’, which was, to ‘preserve’ the ‘love’ . In equality agreements, i am there to stop the “love’ rather than nurture it. The equality agreement is only real if the beings in it stand as Self (stopping the mind) wihin the process. The moment the mind is allowed and accepted as in feelings, thoughts and emotions, it turns into a ‘relationship’, a relationship of the mind with another mind, perceived separate from all. So, self-forgiveness for mind participation is the key.
Feelings are of the mind, therefore they do not exist here in the physical for real. In ‘relationships, feelings, which are not real, is being made real by the ‘lovers’ . It is the reverse in equality agreements. I realized within my agreement with/as L that this is for real, that this is in fact seeing the ‘other’ as me as that breath, that is eternally here. When he ‘fucks up’, i have to support him as me, in my own process.
In my past ‘relationships’, this is a point of leaving and finding ‘another’ one. The starting point being, i perceive myself separate from my ‘partner’, so i ‘can find another separate from myself to unite with again’, who will ‘make me whole again’. The MIND is being supported in its perceived separation.
In equality agreements, both recognizes that we had been participating in the mind in the past, and agree that this has to be stopped through self-forgiveness, self-honesty and taking self-responsibility for the Self to step forth – birthing itself here in the physical.
Where the ‘relationship’ based on the mind, exist to preserve the ‘relationship geometry’ of attraction, desire and sex, in equality agreements, the act of sex is being used to change the sex system within the system. Desire is being self-forgiven so it is not desire that is fuelling it. It is not attraction fuelling it. Do we enjoy? Yes, and the mind will not ‘understand that’. From the perspective of Self, it is Self enjoying itself here – self-expression for real. Why? Because It is the agreement ‘geometry’ of what is best for all, stopping the mind and breath orgasm that is generating the birthing of self here, one and equal as all life, and in the process, we stop our unconscious participation, and within it create heaven on earth. This is REAL.
That reality will have to be lived in fact in all areas of life. It is quite a process, but i am willing to stand within my process no matter what because i am here and i cannot deny the fact that i am one and equal as all life here. We all exist here.
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