Quotes:
“Speaking self forgiveness is like – ‘saying sorry to yourself’, but in more deep and intimate way. Saying sorry to yourself for separating yourself from yourself, from not realising that you can actually help yourself, from making your life difficult for yourself, from being hard on yourself, from not helping yourself. And in this self forgiveness as ‘saying sorry to yourself’ you then release yourself / set yourself free from your past so that you can help yourself to create a new future for yourself inside yourself. Through self forgiveness, you let go of the burdens of the past in your mind that is haunting you, and set yourself free to take your power back to change yourself, for yourself.” ~ Sunette Destonian Spies
Self-forgiveness is the act of rebirth and giving self to self through letting the past as self go and creating a new self that can be trusted to always be what is best for all. Bernard Poolman===
I do self-forgiveness for what i accepted and allowed in my world that is not best for all concerned (not best for the body either ) and essentially , not best for me either.
I am doing self-correction in every moment (below, you can see an example )
Writing blogs to rewrite the book within myself
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Example:
I do self-forgiveness for :
1. Fears
2. Desires
etc.
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The words I use:
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to….
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Example of Self-forgiveness:
Eating Chips for Entertainment Instead of Eating Chips To Support the Body To Survive Optimally
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to eat chips to entertain myself instead of realizing i have to redefine the word chips and find out which chips will assist my body to survive optimally and iff i cannot find any – to create a recipe for chips to assist my body.
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Example of a Self correction Script:
Self-correction
1. When i see myself eating chips to entertain myself instead of instead of assisting my body to survive optimally
I stop
I breathe
I realized that i connected chips to that memory of when i was a child eating chips with my friends in school having a good time and laughing together – connecting chips to a feeling of happiness where i desire happiness which is being fuelled by my fear of sadness, I am assisting myself to redefine the word chips as equal to my expression, releasing the positive and negative charge i gave the word and apply myself accordingly in my written and spoken expression.
Practical Application
When i am faced with a similar situation, i will stop, breathe through the desire and change my starting point, from self-interest to what is best for all, my body – as who i am is the breath in my body moving me here in every moment.
Redefining Words:
http://juneroca.com/words/redefining-words/
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Go to the Self-forgiveness Page for more perspective:
http://wiki.destonians.com/Self-Forgiveness
