ABUSE
My friend needs some self-forgiveness statements for abuse so i am doing these self-forgiveness statements and self-corrective statements to assist her as me.
My self-forgiveness Statements:
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from others
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to blame myself for being abused by others
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to blame others for abusing me
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Self-forgiveness for separation from words through the definitions, judgments etc. i gave them:
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word abuse
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word brother
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word neighbor
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word parents
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word neighbor
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word older
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word did
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word friends
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word nothing
I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word anger
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word mother
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word me
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with sorrow
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with anger
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with pity
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with empathy
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with inferiority
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with help
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with forgiveness
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with others
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with myself
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with shame
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with friends
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with brother
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with parents
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with me
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with nothing
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word abuse with
I forgive
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define abuse within pity
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within sorrow
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within anger
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within empathy
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within inferiority
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within help
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within forgiveness
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within others
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within myself
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word abuse within shame
Self-forgiveness For Memories of the Past
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define myself within an experience of abuse – existing within memories of the past
Self-forgiveness for Judgment
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to judge some actions as more than myself and some actions are less than myself
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to believe that some acts are bad and some acts are good
Self-forgiveness for not taking responsibility
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to not take self-responsibility to create a world where abuse is no more – where there is dignified life for all
Self-Correction
Self-Corrective Statements for separating myself from others
When and as i see myself separating myself from others -i stop – i breath. I realize that separating myself
from others make me live life as a personality defined by my identity separate from others – which gives me a
choice to just exist in self-interest or to help. I realize this gives me a feeling that i as the personality is real as i
am the personality interacting with different personalities n my world separate from all – which gives me a
unique identity that makes me different from others. I stop participating because this is not what is best for me -
as this will give life to the ego-personality who i am stopping. This is not what is best for all because this will
support the personality systems that support the world systems which makes this world the way it is – creating
the very systems that we want to stop within our acceptances and allowances as the personality.
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Self Corrective Statements for Blaming Myself for Being Abused by Others
When and as i see myself blaming myself for being abused by others – i stop – i breath. I realize that when i blame myself for being abused by others they become more than myself and me less than myself. This gives me a sense that i as the personality blaming another is real because i am existing within a definition of myself as energy existing within the polarity of blame and no blame – time and no time – - memory or no memory- sorrow or no sorrow – confidence and no confidence – shame or no shame – sorrow or no sorrow – anger or no anger – good or bad – positve or negative – right or wrong. This is not what is best for me because i will give life to the personality i am stopping by existing as energy. This is not what is best for all because this will support the personality systems that support the world systems which makes the world the way it is – creating the very system we want to stop.
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Self Corrective Statements for Blaming Others for Abusing Me
When and as i see myself blaming others for abusing me, i stop – i breath. I realize this makes me see myself as a victim – with no power and the abuser with more power believing that i am right and he’s wrong – that he’s bad and i am good. This gives me a sense that the personality is real because i am existing within a definition of me as energy existing within a polarity of good and bad- right or wrong – positive or negative. I stop participating because this is not what is best for me – as this will give life to the very personality i am stopping. This is not what is best for all because this supports the personality systems that support the world systems which makes this world the way it is – creating the very system we want to stop.
