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  When i was posting at my Facebook page this morning i saw the chat window open and saw one of my friends, let’s call her Ms M from India wanting to chat to me. I normally would just close the chat window when i am busy but i directed myself to chat to this lady and direct her as me. I would like to share what was said in chat:

  Note:

  Didi is a word used in India to indicate one is an elder sister – which is usually used as a prefix when referring to a lady monk .

  *M

  • namaskar

  • namaskar didi

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  October 12

  June Roca

  • hi, how can i assist?

• Saturday

  M

  • namaskar

• 54 minutes ago

  M

  • ddi namaskar you are alwayz busy

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  53 minutes ago

  June Roca

  • how can i assist?

• 52 minutes ago

  M

  • i dont understand you each time i convey my namaskar to you u say how can i assist you does it means how can i help u?????????????????

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  37 minutes ago

  June Roca

  • Look at this blog about Namaskar http://juneroca.com/2011/10/21/a-chat-with-a-yogi-namaskar-words-and-deception/

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    I saw that directing others as me when chatting is the new effective way to chat in FB.

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    Self-Honesty:

    * I saw Ms. M showing me what i participated in the past as the personality/Ego Self.

    *I have used this word didi in the past to call Lady Monks my elder sister – and saw them as more spiritual than me because they are monks and i am not. I did not realize at that time that i was judging them as more than myself and that i was judging myself as less than me when i call them that.

    Commonsense:

    No one is more than or less than us. We are one and equal as each other – as all life.

    Words are one and equal as us as – Self as Life

    I will do self-forgiveness below.

    What is self-forgiveness?

    Self-forgiveness is the act of rebirth and giving self to self through letting the past as self go and creating a new self that can be trusted to always be what is best for all. Bernard Poolman

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    Self-forgiveness statements

    I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word didi with gentleness

    I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word gentleness within the word didi

    I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word didi with spirituality

    I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word spirituality within the word didi

    I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word didi with a thought picture of a lady monk smiling in joy with hands folded together in namaskar

    I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word didi with feelings of joy

    I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word didi with the words elder sister

    I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word elder sister within the word didi

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    The Big Picture:

    War is being supported by competition between people who think they are more holy than others and others thinking they are less holy than others. Let’s stop competition within judgment, jealousy and comparison.

    Competition between countries support war.

    We need a new economic system – the equal money system – where all can have the basic necessities they need to survive in dignity.
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    I am one vote for world equality. I am one vote for the equal-life party.

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Why organize?

I saw the pantry disorganized one day – where the plastic containers with spices were laying one on top of another. I cannot find the spices that i need. I realized that i have to do something about it or i will one day be overwhelmed by the mess and do it anyway.

Why wait to a point of being overwhelmed when i can take self-responsibility right there?

So, i did act on the situation at hand. It took me 2 days to organize the pantry. First i looked at what i need – to finish this project. I saw that i need bottles of different sizes because i had different amounts of spices, dried food stuffs nuts and grains. There were stuff from about a year ago which was there before i came and live with L. So, its clear from this eye inspection that i need bottles of different sizes. The next thing is to dispose the old foodstuff and put them in the trash can.Someone will also have to throw the trash.

I then asked L to come with me in the grocery store to purchase these bottles. The next thing we looked at is the amount of money we have to have and how many bottles we have to purchase for all the food stuff to have a “place to stay” – a bottle.

We bought 2 dozens bottles first. We shared in the expenses because it will be both to our advantage.When i was transferring all the food items and spices inside the bottles i found out i need 2 dozens more – so we went to the grocery store again to buy 2 more dozens. L put away the trash.I finished the project in 2 days.

In cases where there are many personalities living together – if the personality does not return the food item at the place where one took it, other personalities in the group will not find it. So, the personality doing one’s job to put the salt back to where one got it so other personalities can find and return it to the same place is key so that all will be benefited – what is best for all.

Here, i can see the Commonsense points:
1.Money is needed in running a household
2.Seeing what needs to be done
3.Taking self-responsibility for what needs to be done – to do ones job
4.Measuring the time from when i acted on something and when i finish
5.I created something – a product – an organized pantry – that is what is best for both of us – which is best for all – where others will see the advantage for themselves too if they do what i do.
6. Everyone sharing the space in a house or apartment has to have a specific job that will contribute to what is best for all – living in that place.
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Taking self-responsibility by doing self-forgiveness:
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself – to in the past not take self-responsibility in putting things where they belong – or do what i need to do or do what was assigned to me – for family members to be benefited equally by doing my job.
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to create competition between me and others within judgment, comparison and jealousy- where i see me as better than others – my mom and my sister -which makes me feel as if i am special than others – a polarity that creates friction – supporting consumerism and capitalism .
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Organizing cannot happen when one does not have money to buy food. I suggest the equal monetary system – where all will have the basic necessities – to buy food etc. – which they need to survive in dignity and live life fully.
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I am one vote for world equality. I am one vote for the Equal- Life Party.
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I was talking to L about the Phallus Festival in Japan which is the way they celebrate fertility. and was talking about the associations we place on the penis and the vagina – which are parts of the body – real. I just realized what we did. We associated what’s real with judgments and beliefs which are of the mind.

L then asked me, “but why can’t we express as both in the way we dress?”

I looked at the word express in the dictionary and i found this – “give expression to”. I then looked up the word expression:
Expression
The communication (in speech or writing) of your beliefs or opinions
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Education
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Self-Honesty:
I am one and equal as all life.
I work for what is best for all
I am the breath in every moment here
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What was the belief?
The belief is that I as who i really am can express through the clothes i wear, the make up i put on, the bags i use, the shoes i wear etc. – not realizing that it is the personality/EGO SELF that is doing that – perceived separate from all.
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Commonsense:
Here we can see that everything – the clothes, the shoes, the make-up, the wig etc.- was perceived in separation from oneself.That is the personality/EGO SELF. It’s not who i really am – as SELF as LIFE.
Who i really am is expressing as the life essence as the clothes, as the make-up, as the wig, as the shoes etc. I am one and equal as all life. We all came from the earth.We are LIFE.
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http://juneroca.com/2011/10/13/my-story-who-am-i-part-1-the-personalityego-self-making-sense-of-itself/

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The Big Picture:
When i support these beliefs and judgments within me, i participate in the mind- of polarity – friction – spark – that supports the bigger spark that is consumerism which supports the current economic system based on inequality. I suggest for us to support the new economic system – equal money.
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Where my vote goes:
I am one vote for an equal money system and world equality – where all of us will be given the opportunity to get the basic necessities we need to live life in dignity – equal power – where no one takes advantage of each other – and equal rights.
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