August 28.2011
How do i get assisted in an agreement/”relationship”? How do i assist the person i am in an agreement/”relationship” with? How do i assist others in addition to assisting me and assisting L?
L posted a self-forgiveness statement in Facebook 2 days ago. I read it and saw that the post is about “love”. I saw that in my past relationship, i also have points about love, so i posted my self-forgiveness in the same thread including my self corrective statements. I had a memory connected with the word love which came out when i saw his self-forgiveness statements. I did self-forgiveness for the points and also wrote down my self-corrective statements and self-corrective application. this is how i get assisted in an agreement/”relationship”. Here’s the link to the thread and L’s blog about the same event http://networkedblogs.com/mfYOp. I am the “J” in the thread (refer to the link). At the beginning i asked him where the self corrective statements are because when we do self-forgiveness, we correct ourselves after that and do self corrective application. After that, i realized that i had to do self-forgiveness too for some “love memories” in the past, so i did . We ended up assisting each other and someone else in the thread. I then told him to blog about this.
Another instance where he assisted me was within him dressing up using womens clothes because i had aversion for seeig him as a woman as i defined him as a man within his picture presentation. I did not know i had aversion for this, but one day we were looking at points we can do self forgiveness for and so we went to a gay club. I asked him to dress up in woman’s clothing. I didn’t want to look at him dress up. Here’s a link to that http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/08/22/i-dont-like-to-see-you-as-a-man-dressed-as-a-wo-man-at-the-gay-club-what-we-think-is-real-is-not-real/.
In the beginning when i was assisting L, i was impatient because i have an expectation that he will be this guy who is “better than other men” and that he will be able to see all of his points and do self-forgiveness for them. This is my mind thinking this within the belief that he is special. This is not real because we are one and equal as all life.
There were instances where i had this belief that assisting someone is showing him what i realized. That did not work because, it was not real to him because he had not walk what i walked, so i had to walk with him as him. Here’s a link to when i assisted him to see the “help” points (points to do self-forgiveness for) regarding him “helping” his friend, D, http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/07/26/ls-friend-d-fight-between-friends-and-self-forgiveness/. What i found out here is that as i assist him i see points to do self-forgiveness for, so i get assisted in the process also- so we assist each other one and equal.
Another instance where i assisted L is in seeing how we can assist his uncle, see where there’s mind participation within self-dishonesty, L’s points and also me seeing my points. So we really assisted each other one and equal, http://juneroca.wordpress.com/2011/07/25/ls-uncle-self-directing-self-and-others-as-self-within-relationships-or-agreements/.
When i was assisting L today in looking for points within “cross-dressing”, i have to show him his points one by one and guide him in his self-forgiveness statements. There was also one time when i had to ask him what my self-forgivenesses are within personality presentations . This clearly tells me that agreements/”relationships assist one in ones process of birthing self here.
Today, i had one person call me up his problems about his emotions and his stress and so i assisted him by suggesting what self-forgiveness statements he can say. Tomorrow, i will be assisting another guy in his self-forgiveness application and also answer his questions about the mind. L’s points plus my points plus 2 other people’s points can become “overwhelming” from the mind’s perspective, but with self-forgiveness on being overwhelmed being there for me to use, there is no way really to be overwhelmed or have any problem because i do self-forgiveness for every problem i have together with all emotions, thoughts and feelings i have.
The essence of assisting others as me is really facing me within their process.
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Points i see within this:
*Believing that L as “better than other men” because he is doing the same process with me and other men who are not doing the process are “less than him”
*Feeling overwhelmed in assisting more than 1 person
*Believing L as special when he is assisting me and he is “less than” myself when i am assisting him
*Impatience
*Memories about love in past relationships
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Self-forgiveness statements:
*Believing that L as “better than other men” because he is doing the same process with me and other men who are not doing the process are “less than him”
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to believe that L is better than other men because he is doing the same process with me and other men who are not doing the process is “less than” him
*Feeling overwhelmed in assisting more than 1 person
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to feel overwhelmed in assisting more than 1 person as i identify as the ego/personality perceived separate from all
*Believing L as special when he is assisting me and he is “less than” myself when i am assisting him
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to believe that L is special when he is assisting me in my process and he is less than myself when i am assisting him in his process.
*Impatience
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to be impatient when i assist more than one person
*Memories about love in past relationships
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to have memories about love in past relationships.
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to believe that time exist
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Self corrective statements:
I am one and equal as the people i am assisting
I am one and equal as all life.
I am the breath in every moment here
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Self corrective application:
When and as i see myself believing that i am overwhelmed when i assist more than one person within my process – i stop – i breath and let go. I realise that it needs my participation in beliefs and polarity for this to exist. i realise this is not what is best for me and not what is best for all. I stop participating.
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