I am single and am not going out with anyone, so, when my friend (a guy), said “put your hands on my hands, i hesitated for a second, but saw the opportunity to look at any movement within to assist me in my process, so i put my hand on his hand . I noticed our hands stayed touching for about 3 minutes. I was looking for any movement within because i am single and as i touch different parts of my body when i do breath orgasm, in the morning, This will assist me in finding movements within as i touch the “opposite sex”.  It was just touching, no movement, so, i removed my hand and suggested we test 2 kinds of touch, first,  with “desire/attraction” ( i noticed we did not really get into the “desire” part because we’re both in the process of stopping the mind, somehow i can’t access it, it was superficial, and i noticed he had a similar experience) and then touch as Self, one and equal as the body of the one being touched. So, we did. He touched my hand first, then near the wrist. The touch was warm. I cannot relate to the first one. The second one, he touched me as one and equal as him (he is also doing the same process i am doing) , i was looking at the oneness and equality in the actual touch, then i saw the mind was about to compare it to a past experience, but i stopped right there. The touch was similar to when i touch my hand myself. At that point, i had a thought, “I like to be touched this way, i wonder how it will be like having breath orgasm with the opposite sex”? I saw i was thinking, so i stopped. We realized we both enjoyed the touch as one and equal as the body and that was an eye opener in how oneness & equality in its application is what’s best for all in all areas of life.

Points i saw within this:

*FEAR of commitment, as memory (MIND)

*FEAR of getting hurt, as memory (MIND)

*perceived separation from the body (MIND)

*perceived separation from the breath (MIND)

*perceived separation from ”another” (MIND)

*comparison between a past experience and the present experience (MIND) 

*DESIRE to be TOUCHED and TOUCH someone(MIND)

*Warmth of the hand associated with “feeling good” (MIND)

*Testing  touch with Desire/Attraction (MIND)

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Taking self-responsibility by doing self-forgiveness for everything of the mind to STOPPING the MIND, SELF STEPS FORTH:

**I forgive myself that i accepted and allowe myself to FEAR commitment

**I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to FEAR being hurt

**I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to identify with the body 

**I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to perceive the body separate from myself

**I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to perceive the breath separate from myself

**I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to perceive “another” as separate from myself

**I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to compare an experience form the past to an experience at present, not realizing that having a memory of time according to past and present experiences is of the mind

**I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to desire/want to be touched

and associate the touch of the “opposite sex” to pictures and experiences in the past and associate it with “feeling good”

**I forgive myself that i accepted an allowe myself to test touching with desire/attraction not realizing that, that is of the mind

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Self-Direction:

I am the BREATH in every moment here

I am here

I am one and equal as all LIFE

I am one and equal as the BREATH & the BODY.

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Self-Corrective Statement:

When i see myself going into a pattern of DESIRE – I STOP participating – I BREATH

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CREATING HEAVEN on EARTH

Taking self-responsibility for/as everyone by assisting in establishing :

Equal money for All -giving each one access to the basic necessities to survive to live in Dignity -by giving each one equal amount of money from birth to death

Equal power so no one will take advantage of another

Equal rights

Equal labour – equal opportunity to work

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