When i sent a text message to L about me calling the agreement off, if he does not stop participating in the network marketing company that supports the system, I told him if he does not call me the next day, it means he will continue on his participation in the company and the agreement will be off. The next day he called me and we talked. I said i saw his blog and that i saw the points he did self-forgiveness statements for. I asked him what he will do to stop his participation in the company. He said he will not sign up with the company. There is also this other point relating to his friend who he said needed his “help” because he cannot work if he will not give him a lift to work. He said he will just help him get his drivers license and that’s it. I asked him if he looked for job openings in LA at the place where he works, and he said not yet, he will first help his friend get a driver’s license then he will do that. So, to assist him, i looked at his financial state, and looked at how it is possible to pay these debts without him participating in the network mktng business. I participated in the network marketing business for 10 years before and have looked at my own finances and is in the process of repairing it also, so i can see it is possible for him to not participate and still be able to pay his debt. After looking closely, i saw that to pay his debt he has to spend a little bit more a month. What he receives in his 7-4 job is enough to pay for all his monthly bills and pay for his debt on top of that. In fact he’s got savings per month after all has been paid. He also showed me an email he sent to B about the situation and his answer where he told us to work on this ourselves because both of us have a point. I have to cut our communication in the middle of it because i had to work. i said i will be back in an hour. When i come back after an hour, i went to the computer and looked at the newsfeed in facebook and i saw his status changed to single. I can’t understand what was going on. So, i sent him a message to call me. He did call me and said he emailed me about his decision to end the agreement because he has to really sign up for this company so that in 2 months he will be financially able. I said that i will honor what his decision is, but advised him to do it in a way where he can respect me as an equal and wait for my response to his email or call me to end the agreement. So, it ended.
L’s Blog Link on the same subject:
http://blackwaterpower.blogspot.com/2011/04/end-of-agreement-with-j.html
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My Points and L’s points which i saw within this :
*Self-sabotage
*Self Diminishment
*Helping others
*Fear of getting into relationships
*Fear of rejection
*Regret
*Aversion to be in a relationship to take on points of another on top of the points i am taking on myself
*Desire to be in a relationship
*Desire to control the situation
*Dishonesty
*Self-interest
*Identification as a woman separate from a man
*feeling of loneliness or sadness
*Aversion for the ending of the agreement to be exposed in public
*Desire to end the agreement in private
*Fear of being taken avantaged of
*Wanting to be right and so miss the points being shown in the event
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*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to sabotage self by agreeing on honoring the agreement, deciding to not support the system and then turn around and support the system anyway
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to diminish self by supporting the system when i know there is a way of paying my debts other than support the system
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to think that when i “help others” i am assisting as self, not realizing that that is the ego/personality helping another perceive separate from oneself.
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to Fear getting into relationships
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to Fear rejection
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to have regrets about the agreement ending
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to have Aversion to be in a relationship to take on points of another on top of the points i am taking on myself
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to Desire to be in a relationship
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to Desire to control the situation
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to be dishonest by omitting details within what happened
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to act in self-interest rather than what is best for all
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to Identify as a woman separate from a man
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to feel lonely and/or sad
*I forgie myself that i accepted and allowed myself to have aversion for the ending of the agreement to be exposed in public
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to desire to end the agreement in private
*I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to fear being taken advantaged of
*Wanting to be right and so miss the points being shown in the event
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Points i see within the network marketing industry that i participated before that is of the MIND and the Self-forgiveness statements
1. Exploiting people’s DESIRE to Work from Home & ean passive income
2. DESIRE to have a lot of money to live in luxury
3. Desire to be a leader
4. Desire to have so many people under me so i can receive passive income through commissions
5. Aversion for an 8-5 job
6. Desire to travel & have a vacation & still get passive income while doing it.
7. Fear of losing money
8. Desire to train people under me perceiving them separate from me
9. Desire to look and speak like my upline
10. Desire to succeed
11. Thinking in terms of time rather than me here in every moment
12. Thinking that the only way to solve a problem about money is by supporting the system first and then assist in establishing equal money for all later when i have enough money to do so
13. Thinking of nothing else but what is easily available for me to get money fast because i have to pay bills
14. Being directed by my need for money
Self-forgiveness Statements :
1. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to exploit people’s desire to work from home & earn passive income.
2. I forgive myself that i accepted an allowed myself to have a Desire to earn a lot of money to live in luxury
3. I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to desire to be a leader
4. I forgive myself that i accept and allow myself to desire to have so many people under me so i can receive passive income through commissions
5.I forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to have aversion for an 8-5 job
6. I forgive myself that i accepted & allowed myself to Desire to travel & have a vacation & still get passive income while doing it.
7. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear losing money
8. I forgive myself that i accepted & allowed myself to desire to train people under me perceiving them separate from me
9. I forgive myself that i accepted an allowed myself to desire to look & speak like my upline
10. I forgive myself that i accepted & allowed myself to Desire to succeed
11. I forgive myself that i accepted & allowed myself to think in terms of time rather than realize i am the breath in every moment here
12. I forgive myself th…at i accepted and allowed myself to think that the only way to solve a problem about money is by supporting the system first and then assist in establishing equal money for all later when i have enough money to do so not realizing that i can be part of the system but not of the system
13. i forgive myself that i accepted and allowed myself to think of nothing else but what is easily available for me to get money fast because i have to pay bills not realizing that there are so many different ways of solving a money problem
14. I forgive myself that i accepted & allowed myself to be directed by my need for money rather than me directing me.
15. I forgive myself that i accepted & allowed myself to not stop so the Self can step forth
More points:
*The emotional tone scale was used to get people to buy. Here’s how we used it, First, we get trained on how to access each emotion (MIND), then we go out and test it on people. When we were proficient in doing this, we used it to sell books…. It worked. We earned money for the company. But, within this is the MIND. Why? Because we exploited people’s minds which is self-manipulation
***SF Statement: I forgive myself that i accepted & allowed myself to be a robot and allowed myself to use the emotions of people to get them to respond to us and buy our product/service not realizing that that is manipulating the mind of others.
* The patters used by sales people is of the mind. ===We were asked to say something out of a patter sheet, the words of which were written by people who work in the sales department of the company driven by the desire to earn money for the company and capitalize on people’s desires & fears and devising a strategy to effectively do that.===
***SF Statement: I forgive myself that i accepted & allowed myself to be a robot and do what management ask us to do as in say something out of a patter sheet – the words of which were written by people who work in the sales department of the company driven by the desire to earn money for the company & which capitalized on people’s desires & fears & devising a strategy to effectively utilize those for them to buy what we sell.
Self-Corrective Statement:
When i see myself going into a pattern of fear -i stop – i breath
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Self-Corrective Action:
I am self-directive in that when this happens i will breathe through it and direct the energy back to self
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CREATING HEAVEN on EARTH
Taking self-responsibility for/as everyone by assisting in establishing :
Equal money for All -giving each one access to the basic necessities to survive to live in Dignity -by giving each one equal amount of money from birth to death.
*People in relationships will not work so hard to get the basic necessities to survive in dignity
Equal power so no one will take advantage of another.
-Women and men have the same power as they have equal amounts of money. They will not take advantage of each other
Equal rights – women and men have equal rights within a “relationship”
Equal labour – equal opportunity to work
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Equal Money for All:
http://www.equalmoney.org
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